On Hello Nigeria today, should people ask their HIV status before going into a relationship? In a relationship, you should be open to each other if you will be sexual involved. There should be full disclosure to know your status. Both parties should go get tested, it is not a death sentence if you are found positive to the virus because there are drugs to take now to reduce the viral load and spread of the infection.
Anti-intro viral drug reduces the load and a positive person can get married to a negative person. Follow the medical instructions properly and you will be fine.